“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her…” Proverbs 31:10, 27-28
As the Book of Proverbs begins with a Prologue (1:1–7), which gives the goals of wisdom in general terms, it concludes with this Epilogue (31:10–31), which presents them in a case study. The opening words “who can find” means this woman is a model or ideal. The phrase “noble character” speaks of excellence, moral worth, and ability, not just marital fidelity. Such a woman is the ideal of wisdom in action.
This poem (Proverbs 31:10-31) could help men know what to look for in a potential spouse. While it is often assumed that women played a subservient role in the home and society of ancient Israel, this woman defies such description. Not only is she the manager of the household, she is also a shrewd businesswoman (and is praised for it). Notice, however, that everything she does is for her family and, by extension, her community. She lives and works for the well-being and livelihood of others. She is not interested in promoting her own self-worth, but her worth is demonstrated by her service, which is ultimately motivated by her love for God. Such a woman should be treasured and honored.
God’s blessings on your day…